Regrets ... I've got a few.............................

So here's something I know to be true, although it's a little corny, and I don't quite know what to do with it:

What I regret most in my life are failures of kindness.

Those moments when another human being was there, in front of me, suffering and I responded ... sensibly.  Reservedly.  Mildly.

-George Saunders,  Congratulations, by the way:  Some Thoughts On Kindness