"A both-and world is rich and dynamic, but it can also be frightening and difficult to comprehend. To live in this multicolor zone, you must develop a high tolerance for ambiguity. Resist the temptation to revert to the simplistic, unreal world of either-or when you feel anxious or insecure. Develop a healthy relationship with the entire spectrum of your experience. Embrace a life of partial knowledge, partial control, partial friendship, partial enmity. What you give up in superficial order and security, you will more than make up for in creativity, improved performance, and rich experience."
-Frank Rivers, The Way of the Owl