Change....................

     "So remember, when people come to you and ask you for help, do so as best you can.  Be kind, be generous, be gracious, be a big person and give of yourself - give your energy.  You don't necessarily have to give your money, but give of your energy.  You can give advice, love, expertise, but don't pick them up.  So when they say, 'What should I do?' ask 'What would you like to do?'  'How do I fix this problem?'  'How would you like to fix this problem?'  'How am I going to get out of this mess?' and  'How would you like to get out of this mess?'
     "You get them to see that the only way up is when they're enthusiastic about their life and their evolution on this earth plane.  When their desire to achieve and perceive and create more is greater than the ego's self-indulgence, obstinacy, and destructive ways, then - and only then - will people change."

-Stuart Wilde, Infinite Self