Counterintuitive....................

    Because here's the thing that's wrong with all of the "How to Be Happy" shit that's been shared eight million times on Facebook in the past few years—here's what nobody realizes about all of this crap:
          The desire for more positive experience is itself a 
          negative experience.  And, paradoxically, the 
          acceptance of one's negative experience is 
          itself a positive experience.

-Mark Manson,  The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck:  A Counterintuitive Approach To Living A Good Life