Fifty years ago.........................

................................at the book store:

The striking thing about love and will in our day is that, whereas in the past they were held up to us as the answer to life's predicaments, they have now themselves become the problem.  It is always true that love and will become more difficult in a transitional age; and ours is an era of radical transition.  The old myths and symbols by which we oriented ourselves are gone, anxiety is rampant;  we cling to each other and try to persuade ourselves that what we feel is love;  we do not will because we are afraid that if we choose one thing or one person we'll lose the other, and we are too insecure to take that chance.  The bottom then drops out of the conjunctive emotions and processes—of which love and will are two of the foremost examples.  The individual is forced to turn inward;  he becomes obsessed with the new form of the problem of identity, namely, Even-if-I-know-who-I-am, I-have-no-significance.  I am unable to influence others.  The next step is apathy.  And the following step is violence.  For no human being can stand the perpetually numbing experience of his own powerlessness.

-Rollo May, from the opening paragraph to the Introduction to his 1969 book, Love And Will

I am guessing (tell you later) that, despite the tone of this paragraph, the book will actually be optimistic about our chances.