On goals..........................

 

     There are two sources of goals: goals created out of inspiration and goals created out of desperation.

     When goals are created out of desperation, we feel an immense sense of scarcity and urgency.  They feel heavy, like a burden, and we may feel daunted by the colossal task we've just committed ourselves to.  Impostor syndrome and self-doubt begin to manifest, and we feel like we're always short on time.  We go about our lives frantically, desperately searching for ways to accomplish our goals faster, always looking externally to fill the void we feel internally.

     Worst of all, if we achieve the goal, soon after, all those feelings of lack begin to resurface again. . . .

     When we create goals out of inspiration, it's an entirely different story.  In this state, we are creating because we feel deeply moved, inspired, and expansive.  Our goals feel like a calling rather than an obligation.  We feel like a powerful force of life is coming from within us, wanting to be expressed through us and into the physical world.  This is why painters paint, dancers dance, writers write, and singers sing, even if they never get paid or make a living from it.  We feel pulled instead of forced to create something.  We gravitate towards it.  We feel compelled to do it.  When we feel like this, we create from a place of abundance instead of lack.

-Joseph Nguyen, Don't Believe Everything You Think