Not sure this argument holds up.............

Whatever the technological advances of modern society—and they're nearly miraculous—the individualized lifestyles that those technologies spawn seem to be deeply brutalizing to the human spirit.
     "You'll have to be prepared to say that we are not a good society—that we are an antihuman society," anthropologist Sharon Abramowitz warned when I tried this idea out on her.  Abramowitz was in Ivory Coast as a Peace Corps volunteer during the start of the civil war in 2002 and experienced firsthand the close bonds created by hardship and danger.  "We are not good to each other.  Our tribalism is to an extremely narrow group of people:  our children, our spouse, maybe our parents.  Our society is alienating, technical, cold, and mystifying.  Our fundamental desire, as human beings, is to be close to others, and our society does not allow for that."

-Sebastian Junger, Tribe:  On Homecoming and Belonging