if they could..............................?

     Jones paused a moment to let the truth of my last realization sink in.  Then he offered a plan of action.  "So how does one become a person whom other people want to be around?   Let me make a suggestion.  Ask yourself this question every day:  'What is it about me that other people would change if they could?"'

-Andy Andrews,  The Noticer:  Sometimes, all a person needs is a little perspective