A Layman's Blog: Mom

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Sunday, May 10, 2026

Gone but not forgotten..............

Monday, February 1, 2021

On listening to Mom...................

Monday, May 27, 2019

Tethered.................................

Affection exchange theory, introduced by Professor Kory Floyd, postulates that affection strengthens bonds, provides access to resources, and communicates your potential as a parent, increasing your pool of potential mates. I think it goes deeper. I know a lot of people who, despite their good fortune, are wandering. Few meaningful relationships, an inability to find reward in their professional lives, too hard on themselves, etc. It's as if they're not grounded, never convinced of their worth . . . wandering.
When I look at my own success, it mostly boils down to two things: being born in America and having someone irrationally passionate about my well-being—my mom. . . .
Having a good person express how wonderful you are hundreds of times changes everything. College, professional success, an impressive mate—these were aspirations, not givens for a remarkably unremarkable kid in an upper-lower-middle-class household. My mom was forty-three, single, and making $15,000 a year as a secretary. She was also a good person who made me feel connected and, while waiting for our Opel, gave me the confidence that I had value, that I was capable and deserving of all these things. Holding hands and laughing, I was tethered.

-Scott Galloway, The Algebra of Happiness: Notes on the Pursuit of Success, Love, and Meaning