Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

Opening paragraphs.................

 

Let me begin my story with a few words about my family.  They were all plan Missouri farmers, proud, honest, hardworking and poor.  Desperately poor.

     According to family legend, my Bradley ancestors immigrated from the British Isles sometime in the mid-1700s to Madison County, Kentucky.  In the early 1800s they migrated west to what would become the State of Missouri.  They settled on small, hard farm parcels in Randolph County in the central part of the state near Clark, a farm village, and Higbee a coal-mining town.

     My grandfather, Thomas Minter Bradley, still in his teens, served as a private in the Confederate Army during the Civil War.  When he came home, he married Sarah Elizabeth Lewis, the daughter of a poor Clark farmer.  They had nine children.  My father, John Smith Bradley, born February 17,1867, was the oldest.

     Like all the Missouri Bradley's, my father began life as a sodbuster.  But he became the first Bradley to break out of the mold.  At age nineteen, and until then largely self-educated, he entered one of the rural schools near Clark.  He was a quick study.  Two years later he had advanced far enough to qualify as a teacher in the rural school system and about 1888 he launched his life's work.

     My father was a curious blend of frontiersman, sportsman, farmer, and intellectual.  Powerfully built and fearless, he was a superb hunter and shot—indisputably the best in Randolph County.  A pioneer in baseball, he carved his own bats, taught himself to pitch curve balls and organized and starred on local teams.  In the months when school was not in session, he usually hired out to farmers or sharecropped to earn enough money to survive.  At the same time, he was an omnivorous reader and lover of books.  Everywhere he taught, he encouraged his students to read and created small libraries for them.

-Omar N. Bradley (with Clay Blair), A General's Life:  An Autobiography by General of The Army Omar N. Bradley


Thursday, November 27, 2025

Granville Turkey Trot.....................

 

My Sweetie has been co-chair of the Granville Turkey Trot for a while now.  The 5k run/trot/walk/waddle event, held Thanksgiving mornings, draws a good crowd.  Despite temperatures hovering around freezing, over 2,000 friendly folk participated this morning.  This is the twentieth year for the event; it has become a family tradition.  The Granville Turkey Trot is also a fund-raiser.  All of the money goes to the Food Pantry Network of Licking County.  Last year the committee wrote them a check for around $130,000.  My Sweetie is hoping they top that this year.








Happy Thanksgiving................

 



























Monday, November 24, 2025

A worthy goal................

 

     My only financial goal is to go to bed every night with a sense of calm, knowing my family is OK and that I can spend the next day doing what I want, when I want, with whom I want, for as long as I want.

-Morgan Housel, The Art of Spending Money:  Simple Choices for a Richer Life


Sunday, September 14, 2025

connections.......................

 

We are social beings, designed to live, work, and thrive within a community.  Our greatest joys, deepest sorrows, and most significant achievements gain meaning through our connections with others.

     As you contemplate your own path, remember this: You were made for connection.  You were made to be part of a team—whether it's a family by blood, a family by choice, or both.  You were made to support and be supported, to love and be loved, to challenge and be challenged. 

      You were made to build a team that lifts you up, celebrates your victories, and helps you become the best version of yourself.  A team that keeps you grounded and helps you navigate life's complexities.

     You were made to be part of something bigger than yourself—a family, a community, a legacy that extends beyond your individual achievements.

-George Raveling, What You're Made For


Sunday, March 17, 2024

Opening paragraphs.................

      As someone who never really had one, maybe I am the least qualified person to defend the importance of family.  But as someone with more education than I ever expected to receive, maybe I'm more qualified to say we give education more importance than we should.  I am grateful for the miraculous trajectory of my life, but I had to experience upward mobility firsthand and reach the summit of education to understand its limitations.  I've come to understand that a warm and loving family is worth infinitely more than the money or accomplishments I hoped might compensate for them.

Rob Henderson, from the Preface to his book, Troubled: A Memoir of Foster Care, Family, and Social Class


Thursday, November 23, 2023

A time for family.....................

..............expecting 27.  A degree in space planning would have been useful, but it looks like all will fit in the dining room.  More food has been prepared that you can shake a stick at.  Good thing we all appreciate the leftovers.




Wednesday, November 1, 2023

value added..................

      Like Warren Buffett, Munger inherited no wealth.  He built his fortune on the sheer power of his will and his business acumen.

     "While no real money came down, my family gave me a good education and a marvelous example of how people should behave, and in the end that was more valuable than money."

-Janet Lowe, Damn Right! Behind the Scenes With Berkshire Hathaway Billionaire Charlie Munger


Wednesday, September 20, 2023

Privilege................................

 .....................I grew up in a home like this.













Apparently people are starting to notice that it makes a difference.  For instance, this book review, or this column review.   For a different take, check this blog post. All I know is I do feel privileged.

Tuesday, September 6, 2022

Choices.................

..........Building net worth vs building for a family:

Our accumulated memories have more value than any amount of additional assets I could imagine.

-Richard Quinn, from here

Tuesday, January 26, 2021

Monday, December 28, 2020

Recommended.......................

 

I wanted to tell Uncle Will I had noticed, not just his actions today but his actions through all these years, to let him know I loved him, and that I so appreciated the burden he recognized and shouldered.  That's a complicated thing to talk about.  I worried I didn't have the words.  Thankfully I wouldn't need words.

     I reached into the bag and gripped the neck of the bottle and walked out to the waiting room.  He saw me and leapt up and we embraced.  Then I handed him the bottle.  Tears filled his eyes and there wasn't a word that needed to be said.  He took that bottle home and shares it with special people and on special occasions.  I'm not sure what it means, but the last two gifts I've given Uncle Will were that bottle and a Thomas Merton book, because I like to talk about my evolving faith with him.  There's a synchronicity at work all around us.  A few weeks later, a package arrived at my house from the Old Rip Van Winkle Distillery.  I tore open the box and gasped.  Julian had sent a hand-labeled bottle of whiskey to Wallace, bearing her name and date of birth, safe in a plush red bag.  It sits in my liquor cabinet, hopefully making the trip, waiting on a time when its presence is required to properly convey what a moment means, or what the people we are sharing that moment with mean, so we can revel in the great communal joy of being alive.

-Wright Thompson,  Pappyland:  A Story of Family, Fine Bourbon, and the Things that Last